Oregon Child Car Seat Laws and The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration(NHTSA)

                                                                                                                11/20/14




The other day I ran across child seat belt information, and I decided I might cover it in a post. Here is that post, and I will provide some information and the links to sources to get more information at the end. I researched both Oregon laws and information from the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration(NHTSA).  Oregon laws are pretty easy to understand, but there is a "national" "best practice recommendation" and it appears that is where things can get into a gray area. To my knowledge, the NHTSA helps to provide information to answer your general questions about the gray area and can offer guidelines that would probably cover all states.

Today, I am providing the basic text from Oregon.gov./odot to help resolve some people's questions quickly. For more detailed information, visit the links I have provided below.

For those that are interested in training, Oregon has scheduled courses on  child passenger safety. Please note that from my research there is a fee charged for courses.  The information on the fee schedule for courses can be found at this link here:  http://cert.safekids.org/resources-faqs/fees


Good luck and let's keep those kids safe in the proper child seating restraints!


Information Taken From: http://www.oregon.gov/odot/ts/Pages/safetybelts.aspx
Oregon Laws:

"CHILD RESTRAINT LAW

Child passengers must be restrained in approved child safety seats until they weigh forty pounds or reach the upper weight limit for the car seat in use. Infants must ride rear-facing until they reach both one year of age AND twenty pounds.

 

BOOSTER SEAT LAW

Children over forty pounds or who have reached the upper weight limit for their forward-facing car seat must use boosters to 4'9" tall or age eight and the adult belt fits correctly.

REAR SEATING FOR CHILDREN
There is no Oregon law specifically prohibiting children from riding in the front seat of passenger vehicles.  However, a rear-facing infant seat cannot be placed in a front seating position that is equipped with an airbag because this would violate Oregon's requirement for "proper use" of a child safety seat.  There is a national "best practice recommendation" calling for rear seating through age twelve.

 

NATIONAL "BEST PRACTICE" RECOMMENDATIONS

Safety experts have published guidelines which would keep children in each type of child seat longer than Oregon law prescribes, in addition to back seating through age twelve.  Click the link for the latest national best practices recommendations from USDOT National Highway Traffic Safety.

 

BELT OR BOOSTER?

Belt fit can vary greatly from one vehicle to another and one child to another. If your child meets Oregon's legal requirements for moving from a booster seat to safety belt but you still have doubts about whether your child fits in the belt in your particular vehicle, then the following simple test can help. Place your child in the vehicle without a booster seat and then ask these questions. Until you can answer YES to all of the questions, your child should stay in a booster seat.

1. Can the child sit all the way back against the vehicle seat?
2. Do the child's knees bend comfortably at the edge of the seat?
3. Does the shoulder belt cross the shoulder between the neck and arm?
4. Is the lap belt as low as possible, touching the thighs?
5. Can the child stay comfortably seated like this for the whole trip?  

MOTOR HOMES

Motor homes are considered passenger vehicles under Oregon law and as such, adult belt and child seat requirements apply also to motor homes --- but only to forward-facing vehicle seating positions(those meeting federal safety standards for seat belt anchorages).   Therefore, occupants should utilize all forward-facing belted positions before using side or rear-facing positions.

 

COMMERCIAL VEHICLES

Oregon's safety belt law requires occupants of privately-owned commercial vehicles transporting 15 or fewer persons to use safety restraints including occupants of shuttles, taxis, limousines and vans.  Among these types of vehicles, taxi cab drivers are the only occupants excepted from this rule.
 

ATVS

Oregon Parks and Recreation Department is the implementing agency for laws and rules relating to use of restraints on ATVs.

 

MEDICAL EXEMPTIONS

ORS 811.220 The Director of Transportation shall issue a certificate of exemption under ORS 811.215 for any person on whose behalf a statement signed by a physician is presented to the Department of Transportation. For a physician's statement to qualify under this section, the physician giving the statement must set forth reasons in the statement why the use of a child safety seat system, or safety belt or safety harness by the person would be impractical or harmful to the person by reason of physician condition, medical problem or body size.

 

A safety restraint exemption cannot be issued for commercial drivers per Federal Code 392-16."

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For information from the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration,  it can be found at these links:


http://www.safercar.gov/parents/index.htm

http://www.safercar.gov/parents/Car-Seat-Safety.htm

Attempts to Use False Claims To Modify Custody

                                                                                                                           11-7-2014




Well, my harassment letter set off the other parent and they filed for a change of custody. The change of custody was filed with the courts by a new lawyer for the other parent. The reasons for the change of custody are all false and unfounded.  The claims are use of dirty tactics to try and reverse a supervised parenting contract. I was actually surprised a lawyer would take a case when the other parent is involved in harassing behavior, but the lawyer must not be aware.

My first paragraph was written prior to obtaining my own representation. I have chosen to go with the lawyer that handled my case the last time around. My lawyer advised me that it sounds like they are just throwing darts trying to hit something. Still, there is the possibility this other parent will obtain more time and that time will be potentially unsupervised. My son has serious issues that emanated from living with the other family and to put him back for extended periods unsupervised is just plain crazy, but I guess a real possibility.


I am presenting my harassment information to my lawyer. My hope is that I have a case against the other parent for their harassing behaviors. I am unclear what consequences the other parent will face, but their bad behavior can't continue to go unchecked. Besides, the harassing behavior hasn't stopped even after the letter and the initiating of this court proceeding by the other parent.


A lot of my hopes are riding on that DHS wrote in their notes the danger of unsupervised visits for the other family as they closed the case. As DHS was closing the case, they advised me that the visits were unhealthy and they said the visits should be professionally supervised, but I asked for a letter stating that and they wouldn't produce it. I was told the reason for not giving me the letter was that the DHS supervisor doesn't like employees getting pulled into court battles and works to keep the workers out of the courts. Still, the closing documents might contain statements from the worker acknowledging the family is still volatile and the youngest child is best not being placed back with the other family for safety reasons. Besides,  DHS can be called into to court regardless to attest to the different issues involving this other family.

To further help my case, I have obtained for myself letters from medical staff that sees my son to prove that I am a safe and stable parent helping to provide the best care for my son. Letters from professionals can help to show that you are following the advice of those professionals and providing the best care for your child.


Overall, I can't say I like going through the legal system. The legal system takes up time and money and sometimes courts don't solve the problem. I don't believe the other parent and I can ever work out an amicable solution because we stand at opposite ends of the issue. My goal is to protect my son and if the other parent is unstable and could put our son in harm's way, I feel it is my duty to defend my son. I will post on how things are going as the information becomes available.

Harassment from the Other Parent(Non-Custodial)

                                                                                                                      10-4-14


About six months after the second contract was signed, my son's mother went through a period of harassment. The harassment consisted of calling several times and leaving insults on voicemails and in emails. I called the mediator when I realized there was a problem. The mediator advised my son's mother that what she was doing was inappropriate. Over the next six months, my son's mother was sort of calm, but recently she started harassing me again. This time I received numerous calls in a short period of time that started to glitch my phone because it was on call overload. I had no real choice except to call the police and see what could be done. I advised the police of the new recent insults on my voicemail and the phone call overload. The police advised me to warn the other party about their behavior because that is a requirement  for the behavior to be considered harassment. Also, the police said by calling I had helped make a log and I just needed to keep the date and time for mentioning to a judge in the future because the call is recorded and the call can be reviewed. Lastly, the officer said that I could file for contempt through the courts since the behavior is most likely a violation of the contract which it is a violation.

The fact is that you don't have to put up with a tremendous amount of disrespect and there are options available when the situation requires you to defend yourself. I would suggest caution with how you use the system, like make sure you have support for that the other person has been warned. I used the mediator in the beginning and I used a carefully written email recently and it will be followed by a contempt filing for the next outburst. I understand how hard it is to be insulted and not retaliate in order to build a stronger case against the person, but it is probably the best solution in many cases because as an old saying goes "cooler heads prevail."

 I am putting this information out there because I have had to research hard to figure out how to deal with my son's mother's harassing behavior.  Also, I understand this process might not be the best for everyone, but it is to help provide some tips on how to deal with a similar situation if you are facing one. Good luck and I will try to update or I will post on how this turns out if there are any major changes.





******Update*******

The other parent had a lawyer file for custody shortly after the letter. Shortly after I received the papers, the other parent harassed me in an email, so the matter is continuing. Although, I think the letter worked to some degree because the other parent has actually initiated a process that they will now have to explain their behavior to the judge.

My next post will discuss a little about the new case.

Oregon Dental Help for Low Income or Uninsured

                                                                                                         July 29.2014



Low income or unisured can be tough when it comes to dental needs. I have done my own searching to get dental discounts and help. Oregon Mission of Mercy just completed a two day free clinic in Salem and is only schedule for another one next year, so if you are looking for another option I am going to provide some links to dental clinics that offer discounts for adults and free dental work for children without insurance. The dental clinics are all over Oregon with a few in Washington if I am right. Good Luck.

This dental link  I thought was the best at providing a detailed list of clinics and fees and services:

http://www.oregondental.org/custom/directory/community_access_dir.cfm

Other Dental links to help in your search:

http://www.needhelppayingbills.com/html/oregon_free_dental_centers.html


http://www.freedentalcare.us/st/oregon

My Case with the Oregon Department of Justice Child Support Division

                                                                                                 May 29, 2014

One of the parts of my story is about my case with the Department of Justice(DOJ) Child Support Division. I would like to start off by saying I never tried to fight the DOJ Child Support Division and always had a good attitude when dealing with them and my experience with the agency was good overall. Maybe the best way to put dealing with the DOJ Child Support Division is that "you give respect and you'll get respect."

 Close to a year after my son's birth, I received documents stating that a case was being opened against me. By the time the documents came, I was already in the hole for thousands of dollars because the money builds even while you are unaware a case is open. The DOJ Child Support Division  was  sending mail everywhere looking for me. The DOJ Child Support Division sent scary statements about stopping my license or Passport and other statements, but I just read it and settled down to think about my options. I will admit that I was very worried about being on the tab for lots of money and thinking that my son's mother was just sitting there not paying anything. My son's mother was receiving the money and it was not being appropriately spent on my son, but instead on his siblings or herself. Also, I had to provide for my son when he came to visit me.


My game plan was to go to DOJ Child Support Division and explain my financial situation to them. I brought in any documents they needed to show my income and I explained my monthly bills to them and what I could afford to pay them. My payment amount was far less than what they wanted, and they did make me sign a contract that was re-viewable. I believe the payment contract was re-viewable at 3 months, 6 months and 1 year. The main point is that they were willing to work with me and they would probably be willing to work with any parent that wants to be in good standing with them. Working with the DOJ Child Support Division allowed all my legal privileges to remain the same and it did make me feel better knowing I was doing my part. Every month I walked in my payment before the due date, for several years. If I had more to give, they gladly accepted it without adjustments needed to the contract. The arrears do grow, so you are still responsible for the money that adds up, but paying as you can is helpful.


There is more to my story including that I no longer have to pay child support. A few years ago my son was given to me by the Department of Human Services, Child Protection Services and the Child Welfare Division, due to a bad living situation with his mother which is a story I will cover soon in future posts. The closing out of an account requires both parties agreement to end seeking payments and it can take over a year. I chose not to seek child support from my son's mother because I knew she was broke at the time. I understand that many other men never get to see the document I have that closed the case, I am grateful for having my son and that I get to see him enjoy everything I give him, the time spent with him and that i get to ensure he has proper care on a daily basis.

Oregon Dads Connection

                                                                                                                     May 23, 2014

Oregon Dads  need a place that provides lots of information and tools for their success in parenting. I will be using this blog to give lots of information to help all parents, but I would like to focus on Oregon Dads in need. If you need to contact me this is the address:

oregondadsconnection@gmail.com


I am centralized in the Salem, Oregon Area, so lots of my information will be most helpful to that area, but my searches have taken me to websites that reach well beyond my location to cities all over Oregon. My son has been considered special needs and I have information on that aspect of parenting for fathers looking for services or someone that understands those issues in parenting.  I have been single most of my son's life, so I know the struggles of trying to find that someone special while being a full-time parent too.

I have done lots of researching over the past five years of being a father,  and I have lots of websites, phones numbers, and tips that I can provide including some tips from my filing of custody papers to better help you in your journey as a Oregon Dad. I will slowly be posting the information I have. If you have a question or subject you would like me to cover, feel free to ask.

D.E.